How to choose a wedding photographer

(Hint: find someone you actually like!)

Me and the Father of the Bride at Chapel House Estate ❤️ 

Choosing your wedding photographer is more than scrolling through pretty pictures and checking off boxes; it’s about finding someone you’ll be comfortable with all day long. After all, this person will be around for those big moments, capturing memories that will stay with you forever.

An impromptu moment through the glass between Will and Tara at Chapel House Estate

1. It’s not just the photos, it’s the vibe

Sure, they need to know their way around a camera, but they also need to feel like someone you could invite to dinner. Look for someone who feels like they could be a friend. When you’re relaxed and having fun, it’ll show in every photo!

Elvan and Oz having fun taking pictures of each other at Bromley Civic Centre

2. Peek at their style – not just the poses

Do they have a knack for capturing real laughs? A good photographer’s portfolio will have pictures that make you feel the moment—whether it’s your style or theirs, find someone who ‘gets’ you.

Getting involved in the action means I’m never far from some genuine emotion

3. Do a quick “vibe check” with reviews

Read the Google reviews, and look for things like “felt like part of the family” or “made us feel so at ease.” These are the little insights into how they’ll interact with you on your day. Couples who love their photographers tend to mention this. Usually, this will be the first thing they mention, with the last being the actual photos!

Classic family moments at Pierremont House, Broadstairs

4. Consider their experience with your venue, style or theme

If they know your wedding venue, that’s obviously a bonus, but not essential. A good photographer will do a bit of research, arrive a little earlier to take a look around, and speak to staff to find the best spots!. Whether you’re at a countryside estate or an industrial-chic loft, an experienced photographer will know how to play up the venue’s best features.

Finding a photographer who fits your style is more important than simply finding someone who knows the venue. If you’re confident that your styles are aligned, you can trust that they will be getting what you want throughout the day.

A toast at Searcy’s at the Gherkin, The Gherkin, London

5. Think beyond the poses—movement and natural shots

The best photos come when you’re truly comfortable, not stuck in awkward poses. Look for photographers who encourage movement and interaction. These types of sessions bring out the candid moments—the laughter, the glances, the true you.

Jodie and Phil having fun in the tall grass at Chapel House Estate

6. Check their flexibility and go with the flow

Weddings can be a little unpredictable. A good photographer can handle last-minute changes or surprise rain showers with a smile, and those good vibes will keep you calm and your photos looking great. It’s more about their approach than their planned shots. I guess it’s the same as the difference between knowledge and understanding in school. Knowledge gets you great shots under controlled conditions, but understanding gets you great shots in any conditions, because it becomes more about the story of the couple, rather than the particular shot.

Sophie, Andy and the chaotic bridal party in the dark at Chapel House Estate. This section was actually their favourite photos from the day. Pure chaos!

Final thought: go with someone who ‘gets’ you

When you’re genuinely comfortable with your photographer, it’ll show in every shot. So take your time, find someone who feels like more than a supplier, and get ready to capture your day exactly as it unfolds, with all the love and laughter included.